The title of this post is a phrase I have always heard, but it has taken new meaning as we think about our little family. We've been discussing technology and our home, how much, how to monitor and how to teach self control. I've seriously been asking every family I admire how things roll in their family, hoping to tap into their knowledge.
So one of the big things that has stuck out to me is that
this generation of peeps have what it takes to handle the challenge. They are strong souls and can tackle the challenges in front of them. Another big thing is to
USE technology, don't be afraid of it. The other day Amelia asked me, "why I didn't like tv?". Ugh I may need to be a bit more positive in regards to technology. They do love watching home videos on the computer, Amelia loves taking pictures with the camera and the iPAD and Leapfrog are definitely popular. Something interesting with my chicks though is that with the handheld stuff, out of sight is often out mind...so we kinda have that going for us. I may have kind of freaked out a bit too much, worrying and stressing, but I like to gather info and then formulate a plan. Turns out Mr. P and I are mostly cool with how we have been doing things in our home. I know things will evolve as they get older, especially as Amelia goes off to school next year. I love having friends who are a little farther along the parental path, they have been a wonderful resource.
It is interesting being a momma you want to protect and smother, let no harm ever come to your littles. At times that makes me feel like I don't want to let them step out of my reach, goodness I have held them close, want to keep them close. Perhaps part of it is from our years of infertility, waiting for them. Regardless, while I do loving getting out and being involved in different community programs, letting my littles go out into the world without me is scary. Really I want to help get my littles ready for life, love 'em and want to help them be ready, to
be in the world but not of the world. I know that my darlings have gifts and talents that they need to share with others, they can be a light in the world.
They can be a light in the world.
Came across these great quotes and wanted to keep them for future reference:
Separating evil from our lives has become even more essential since our homes are wired to bring much of what the Lord has condemned into our own living rooms if we are not vigilant. One of the most difficult challenges in our lives is to be in the world but not of the world (see John 15:19). Gospel doctrine makes it clear that we must live in this world to achieve our eternal destination. We must be tried and tested and found worthy of a greater kingdom (see 2 Nephi 2:11; D&C 101:78).
Being a Light to the World
We cannot avoid the world. A cloistered existence is not the answer. In a positive sense, our contribution to the world is part of our challenge and is essential if we are to develop our talents...We inevitably must make choices. If we know the doctrines and principles of the gospel, we can make wise decisions. If our lives are pure, the Spirit will guide us.
~ Quentin L. Cook Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
Elder Ezra Taft Benson said that two principles are essential for security and peace: “First, trust in God; and second, a determination to keep the commandments, to serve the Lord, to do that which is right. … The Lord has made it very clear in the revelations that even though times become perilous, even though we be surrounded by temptation and sin, even though there be a feeling of insecurity, even though men’s hearts may fail them and anxiety fill their souls, if we only trust in God and keep his commandments we need have no fear” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1950, 146).
~ Mrs. P